YOU CAN SEE IT

I know that it's been a while since I've posted, my computer just failed me!  There has been much going on in my life, but my status remains the same....I am still one of the single ladies!!  Amen and I'm not mad at God about either.  He's been taking care of me ladies.

I want to see how everyone has been doing on their journey to look better and feel better about themselves.  After all, a confident woman draws people to her and not away.  Confidence comes from within; it is not something that we can put on like a dress.  It doesn't matter how much make up, new clothes, and attitude you have, it will still be evident to everyone that you are not walking with that certain swagger.

I personally have shed 36 pounds since our last conversation and I am feeling and looking like the daughter God purposed me to be.  That journey continues for me.  How about you?  Did you make some lifestyle changes?  We'll get back to that.

Let me share with you today something I've been learning on this single's journey:  You can always see where someone's heart is in the evidence that they show you.  You just have to be willing to accept that what you are seeing is exactly what is being said.  Let me clarify.  We like to think that everything is cut and dry by what someone tells us, but their actions and behavior do not line up with what they are saying.  If someone is constantly telling they care about you, like you, and want to be with you, but never makes an effort to include you in their time schedule, then you can believe what you hear.  Do you hear me?  There's no other way to gauge that.  People make time for the things that are important to them.  Selfish people only make time for themselves and always have excuses why they cannot make time for you.  Their priority is what they want, what they need, and what they want to do.  There's no other way to get around the reality of that.

I can try to sugar coat it and give you a ton of scriptures on love being patient, being longsuffering, etc.  Honestly, this particularly wisdom is unrelated to patience, its a matter of weighing what you are discerning and actually seeing with your own eyes.  Love does not treat you with distain and clearly being neglected is something that we do not deserve.  We are so much more than that.  You do not need to hold onto things and people that don't appreciate the gift that you are.  The awesome jewel that you are deserves someone to walk with you who will celebrate your magnificence. 

You are a daughter of royal descent.  You should be arrayed in fine apparel and garments.  You should have rings put upon your fingers.  You should be adored and loved because you are quality and a rare commodity.  You are a virtuous find.  Anyone who doesn't know that, will not appreciate that, and will not celebrate that is not worth the time it takes you to put on your stilettos.

Now walk like the daughter of a king and watch how God will begin to send the right kind of man your way.  Now back to the other subject just briefly, because I want to hear from some of you regarding an blog I did a couple of months ago.  I gave you some information on how to look and feel better, get into better shape, etc.  I want to hear from some of you if you have taken the plunge into doing anything with that information.  How are you feeling?  Did you make some changes that were helpful in feeling better about yourself?  Email me:  pastorsymintha@breakforthministries.org or post a note.  I want to hear from you.